A Little Nugget Along The Way- Father G-d Lessons!

We don’t always control the external circumstances of our lives – sometimes something happens unexpectedly. 

The one thing we can control is whether or not we choose to react to it, or what our reaction will be... you control YOU!

When we react, we check out. We’re no longer the one in charge of ourselves. We become the effect of whatever it is we are reacting to.. react in a way pleasing to G-d, and you let Him take control; react in anger, in fear or run, and you let the Enemy of your soul take control. Then, the lesson to be learned in each life event goes unrealized and you have to "circle the mountain" one more time. What a waste! 

It takes a great deal of discipline to remain calm and steadfast in our certainty that everything is for the best, but the more we practice it, the greater we grow our peace within and the more progress we make in our walk with Him.

THE SEVEN C'S OF DECISION-MAKING

Isaiah 30:21 Whether you turn to the right or to the left, your ears will hear a voice behind you, saying, "This is the way; walk in it."

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The term "seven seas" is used to describe all the waters or oceans of the world. To say that a person has sailed the seven seas means literally that the person has navigated all the seas of planet earth. Many times, however, the term is used figuratively to refer to a person who has traveled widely and has a wealth of experience. The term "seven C's" has no connection whatsoever with the term "seven seas." It is only a play on words and a mnemonic device to help us remember the means God uses to guide us when we make decisions in life. If we extend this figure of speech a little, we could say that just as a person who has sailed the seven seas knows how to navigate the oceans of the world, so the Christian who has used the "Seven C's of biblical decision-making" knows how to navigate the Sea of Life.

Navigating the Sea of Life should not be viewed as a "hit or miss" decision-making adventure for the Christian. While the Christian life can be very adventuresome and exciting, it should not be a "hope-for-the-best, luck-of-the-draw, or shot-in-the-dark" string of decisions. Every decision can be made with the confidence that God is in control of the ship. Although every person's life consists of the sum total of innumerable big and little decisions (think about it!), Christians can be confident that God will help them make the right decisions. (See James 1:5-6.) Although some bad decisions will be made along the way (and some may be very bad!), let's not get the idea that mistakes will cause us to be permanently cast adrift on the Sea of Life. When we realize and acknowledge our mistakes, and look to God, He will provide us with navigational aids so that proper course corrections for our lives can be attained.

Isaiah 30:21 is just one of many promises of navigational help that God has given us in His Word. This verse assures us that when we come to decisions concerning compass headings on the Sea of Life, the Lord will tell us which way to go: "This is the way; walk in it." In the context of Isaiah 30, this promise is specifically directed to the nation of Israel who will return in faith and devotion to the Lord, but it can certainly be applied to Christians today. The Holy Spirit lives in us, and we have the promise that God will "never leave us nor forsake us" (Hebrews 13:5), so we can be assured that the Lord will guide us whether to "turn left or turn right" when it comes to decision-making! We may not literally hear the voice of the Lord speaking behind us, but we can be sure that God will not leave us "up for grabs" when it comes to the decisions we must make on the Sea of Life.

The "Seven C's" are the means God uses to show us which way to turn in the decision-making process. Maybe we could call them navigational helps or aids for plotting our course and making course corrections on the Sea of Life. There is no "sacred sequence" to the Seven C's. They are all important and we could start with any one of them in our description just as we may start with any one of them in the decision-making process. However, Communication is by far the most important of the seven C's. The primary way in which God communicates with us is through His Word and the way we communicate with God is through prayer. Scripture not only contains the navigational charts, it also guards and supports the other "C's." When it comes to making decisions, most of what we need to know is quite obvious from black and white Scripture. Questions like whether or not to lie on a job application and whether or not to marry a Christian and whether or not to care for our aging parents and whether or not to have family devotions, shouldn't require an in-depth, decision-making process because the answers are easy to find--right on the surface of Scripture. When it comes to decisions about which job applications we should fill out, or whois the right Christian for us to marry, or what is the most efficient and compassionate way to care for our aging parents or how do we have the most effective family devotions, the Bible continues to help us by giving us guidelines. While the answer may not be in black and white Scripture, the numerous biblical guidelines, many of which can be found even in the narrative portions (or "Bible stories") of Scripture, will home us in to the right decisions. For example, the biblical guidelines found in Deuteronomy 6:7 and Hebrews 10:24-25 would clearly indicate that you should not apply for a job which would prevent you from fulfilling your family and church responsibilities. If you are single and have a strong conviction that God wants you to serve Him as a missionary in another land, a potential spouse that does not share your burden for foreign missions should not be "high on the list," if you consider the guideline of Genesis 2:18 and Amos 3:3. The amount of the inheritance that will be left for you to spend should not be a major factor in the decision-making process concerning the quality of care for grandma in her final years, if Mark 7:8-13 and Ephesians 6:2 are used as guidelines. And a decision to gear your family devotions only for your own adult interests and not to meet the needs of your children would not be made if the guidelines in Ephesians 6:4 and Deuteronomy 4:9 are followed. The more biblical guidelines for making decisions you know and put into practice, the more obvious will be your course of action.

Needless to say, prayer, the other side of communication, is also vital for making decisions. In 1 Peter 5:7 we are told to "cast all your anxiety upon Him, because He cares for you." Does this anxiety include concern about making the right decisions? Of course it does. If God has promised us over and over again in Scripture that He cares about our well-being, certainly He will answer our prayer requests for help in making decisions about such things as jobs, colleges, careers, homes, churches, marriages, families, ministries, finances and whatever else demands our decisions. But He wants us to pray! Even though God knows all about us and the decisions we should make, He still wants us to communicate our thoughts and feelings to Him and our dependence upon Him for making these decisions. Good parents know what's best for a particular child, but they still want their child to communicate his or her desires and need for help. God wants us to communicate with Him in about our decisions.

Besides the "big C" of communication, God uses the rest of the Seven C's to give us further navigational help on the Sea of Life. In fact, the other C's are vitally necessary, because any one C by itself, including the Scriptures, can be misused. Because of our sinful natures, we are very adept at making the Bible confirm just about any decision we want to make! However, when the other C's are taken into account, our misuse of the Bible is held in check. The same is true when the other C's are mishandled. For example, the inner Convictions of the Holy Spirit, another important "C" of decision-making, must be closely examined. Every Christian will have these convictions because the Holy Spirit lives in every believer. The convictions from the Holy Spirit will always be in line with God's perfect will for us and are therefore crucial when it comes to making right decisions. (See John 14:26, 16:13 and 1 John 2:27.) The problem, of course, is confusing the convictions of the Holy Spirit with the cravings of our sinful natures. We are amazingly adept at convincing ourselves that God is leading us to make certain decisions when in reality our "exercises of heart" are nothing more than our self-made "stamps of divine approval." How many times has the expression "The Lord told me" been used to mask the reality of "I told the Lord!" Convictions of the Holy Spirit must always be carefully examined in the light of all the Seven C's to insure against subtle self-delusion.

Common Sense is a "C" that we generally take for granted, and yet it is definitely a means that God has given us to make decisions. In fact, most decisions in life are "small" and are made primarily by using common sense. God does not require Christians to kiss their brains goodbye upon conversion! Does He expect us to use up a lot of time and spiritual energy praying about what particular pair of shoes to wear or whether to brush our teeth? Of course not! Use your common sense! Of course these little decisions matter to an omniscient God. After all, the turn of major events sometimes hinges on the tiniest decisions in life. But God has all the data and knows all of the factors and variables. He expects us to use the common sense that He's given us concerning shoes and teeth and let Him fit these small decisions into the overall pattern of our lives. God has blessed us with common sense and it's our responsibility, as much as possible, to use it for wise decision-making about the common, everyday matters of life. "Sanctified common sense" is part of the navigational system that God has given us!

"How God made us" is what the "C" of Composition is all about. The way in which God sovereignly put us together as to likes and dislikes, looks and brains, abilities and spiritual gifts is actually a means that God uses to guide us. For example, would the Lord be guiding your decision to become a singer or a pianist for His glory if He hasn't blessed you with natural singing or musical ability? Probably not! (Read Psalm 33:3, and notice the word "skillfully"!) By the same token, however, God may be guiding you to say "yes" to an opportunity to be involved in a youth ministry if you like kids and have the natural ability to relate to and communicate with children or teenagers. 1 Peter 4:10 tells us that we should use "whatever gift we have received to serve others, administering God's grace in its various forms." On the Sea of Life, God can best use His tugboats, yachts, oil tankers, fishing boats or aircraft carriers when they're willing to do the job they were designed to do!

The Counsel of other believers is another one of the seven C's that God uses in helping us make decisions. Proverbs 11:14 says that "many advisors make victory sure." The context of this verse has to do with decisions affecting a nation, but personal decision-making is certainly an application. Mature, godly Christians can point us in the right direction and help us make right decisions. It is important to notice that help is assured through the counsel of many advisors. There is always a danger that a lone advisor, even a professional "Christian counselor," may have a biased opinion about the situation. As a result you may be given a bad "compass reading" and end up way off course. The key for helpful counsel in decision-making is to consult a number of godly men and women who have some experience themselves in navigating the area where you need to make a decision. They're like channel markers--they can point out the rocks and shoals! This is the way the Body of Christ should work, and it is a primary way in which God guides us in making decisions. As various body parts of your physical body help your hand, for example, "decide" what and how to do something, so the different members of the Body of Christ function as facilitators for each other.

Circumstances are obviously another one of the Seven C's of God's guidance system. If you believe that God is sovereign, all-knowing, all-powerful and everywhere at the same time, is there any circumstance that escapes His notice or is out of His control? Of course not! There is nothing that happens by mere chance, and that includes every last detail of our lives. If our all-wise and loving heavenly Father is completely sovereign, can He not control circumstances in such a way so as to lead us to make right decisions? Of course He can! God knows those special and particular niches in every area of life that are just right for every one of us, and He can send just the right winds across the Sea of Life to nudge our ship into the anchorage that is best for each one of us!

Those proverbial "open doors" and "closed doors" that believers talk about really do exist! They are not just a naive "Christian view" of circumstances, but rather a working definition of one of the C's that God has given to help us on the Sea of Life. But here again we must be very careful about making decisions based only on circumstances. What looks at first like a closed door may actually be a door waiting to be knocked on and opened. (See Matthew 7:7.) And an apparently open door may not really be open. A job offer with a higher salary does not necessarily mean that God is directing us to pick up and move to a new location--we may have forced our own interpretation on that circumstance! It's even possible for Satan to manipulate certain circumstances--this would certainly be part of his scheming strategy to blow us off course. (See 2 Corinthians 2:11 and 11:14.) But let's not let these danger signals make us afraid to prayerfully analyze the circumstances around us. God definitely uses circumstances in His navigational system. The proper use of the other C's will safeguard us from reading too much or too little into the "C" of circumstances.

Finally, there are times when God steps in and takes Control of the decision-making process in no uncertain terms. In some situations there is no question that God is indicating what decision He wants us to make. A model train operator normally monitors the movement of the model trains by remote controls. Sometimes, however, the operator reaches into the layout and moves or straightens out a boxcar or an engine with "hands on" control. In the same way, God sometimes reaches in and takes control of our situation in such a way that we are no longer even involved in the decision! In the normal decision-making process, for example, a good offer on our house may or may not be an indication that God wants us to move. But if our house just "happens" to burn to the ground, we can be sure that God wants us to move--regardless of the cause of the fire! Although that isn't a very pleasant illustration, it does make the point that sometimes the Lord takes the decision-making process completely out of our hands. When we are suddenly removed from one ministry and find ourselves in the midst of a new ministry, without having made any decisions ourselves, it is probably a good indication that God is guiding us by control. Sometimes God steps in and controls our decision because some of the other C's seem to be pointing us in a certain direction, but God wants us to go in a different direction. For example, God used the "C" of control in the life of the apostle Paul in Acts 16:6-10. At others times God controls our decision because He knows of some impending danger, or a future unlikely turn of events that a common sense decision-making approach would miss completely. And sometimes God just graciously chooses to use the "C" of Control to deliver us from the dilemma of doubt in the decision-making process.

The Sea of Life can be very troubled at times and there are always hazards to avoid. Knowing and using God's navigational system of the "Seven C's" helps the growing Christian in making good decisions--decisions that avoid disaster and head us in the direction of following God's will for our lives.

David R. Reid

The True Blessing of The Sabbath

The Sabbath – we think of the Jewish day of rest, or maybe any day when we’re not working, or the day we attend services. Yeshua says of the Sabbath, “The Sabbath was made for man, not man for the Sabbath.” (Mark 2:27). The Sabbath is one of the blessings G-d made for mankind to enjoy. He practiced it Himself on the seventh day (our Saturday) of creation. Was G-d tired? Had all the work He’d done on the first six days worn Him out? I can imagine it could, but no- G-d created it along with the world and its inhabitants as a gift to man, animals and the land.

A day, 24 hours, of no work — to most people that is a luxury. When I first got a hold of the concept that the Sabbath was to be a blessing for man, and decided to try it, it was difficult. My orientation to life is being productive, efficient, always making progress on projects, never an idle moment. I tried to distract myself with religious TV shows, Bible study, going to service, napping, studying His word online. But I found I was mostly concentrating on NOT doing things, instead of enjoying what I was doing without feeling guilty. I had even worked extra hard in order to carve out a day that I could do no work. That was good practice, but it felt more like I was serving the Sabbath, not it serving me. As I learned more about it, I realized it’s actually about trusting G-d. We strive all week to get everything done, to not get too far behind, to juggle conflicting priorities or just keep up with our various responsibilities. But G-d Himself is the source of our lives, He has provided our jobs, our homes, our families — all those things that keep us busy. He doesn’t just give them to us and let us struggle underneath them all on our own- which I tend to do most of the time! If we will let Him, He wants to bless us with them. That means He has to do some of the work for us. He can get results that we cannot, and in less time than it will take us. But we have to step back and let Him take over.

The Sabbath (from Friday evening at sunset, to Saturday evening at sunset)is that day. In Genesis 2, the Sabbath was designated on the seventh day. In Hebrew terms, the number seven represents completion. G-d uses it over and over in Biblical history as a symbol of completion and perfection. You could say the Sabbath is the day G-d completes the work He’s given us. At the end of the sixth day, we can walk away and hand the reins back to Him to complete and bless our offering of work in the things He’s provided us. With it comes an attitude of acknowledging that all we have comes from Him, and He alone is the One that brings it to its perfect fulfillment. Wow – that even makes the first six days a lot easier! But walking away is hard... really hard. It takes a lot of restraint not to automatically do housework, clean up a few loose ends for work, or plan meals for the next week — at least at first. But when you really begin believing that G-d is your source and trust that not only will He not let you fall, but He can actually finish your work better than you can, that’s when the Sabbath begins to serve you as it was meant to. Freedom from the weight of responsibilities, guilt-free relaxation with family and friends, anticipation of what G-d can do when you’re not around, knowing that He’s got better things planned for you that day, no distractions from enjoying your 24 hours — what a luxury, indeed!

“If you keep your feet from breaking the Sabbath and from doing as you please on my holy day, if you call the Sabbath a delight and Adonai’s holy day honorable, and if you honor it by not going your own way and not doing as you please or speaking idle words, then you will find your joy in Adonai, and I will cause you to ride in triumph on the heights of the land and to feast on the inheritance of your father Jacob. For the mouth of Adonai has spoken.” Isaiah 58:13-14

Take it slow if this is not your custom. There is no anger from your Father G-d if you don't do it "right"! Honor His Word step by step and see the harvest of blessing that flows in your life as you walk it out!

GETVEXT Declares “War" On Distracted Driving In North America

We have a HUGE announcement and more coming!!! If you are a GetVext shareholder, you should be a happy camper... if not... well call me!! Oklahoma-based, Nationwide Telecommunication Services Provider GETVEXT.com CEO Larry Favalora has declared "war” on Distracted Driving (DD) in North America. GetVext Hands-free Solutions, Inc. (GetVext) is a revolutionary new technology that enables a mobile subscriber access to individual and group text messages and select social networking sites without typing, by voice, at any time, on any wireless mobile device or from any land-line phone. Subscribers compose and reply to text messages and social network entries entirely by voice. Hands-free and eyes-free. Safely while driving, and at any other time. FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE (Newswire.Net -- March 25, 2013), Tulsa, OK Oklahoma-based, Nationwide Telecommunication Services Provider GETVEXT.com CEO Larry Favalora has declared "war” on Distracted Driving (DD) in North America. “When you have the solution that helps keep people alive, yet nearly lose one of your own team to the perils of another driver being distracted, it cuts too close to home.” “We can no longer stand by and let the traditional market adoption take its course,” said Favalora. “Last week one our corporate investors and his wife were nearly killed in a head-on collision with a 20-year old who was allegedly ‘distracted driving’ (DD). The oncoming driver continued heading straight despite a curve in the road and slammed head-on into our investor", said Favalora. “In our research of the issues since the accident, we have learned that you are 23-times more likely to be injured as a result of (DD) or a distracted driver, than by driving drunk or a drunk driver”. We’ve had years of campaigning against drunk driving to have the impact we've had to date, however, distracted driving must become America’s new rallying cry to immediately limit the loss of life and property to this underestimated killer”, said Favalora. In response, we are realigning our entire corporate focus to put an end to “Distracted Driving (DD), with a laser-focus on ‘texting and driving '(T&D)” by not only declaring “war” but by triggering a full roll-out of our service platform nationwide to high schools and colleges nationwide through our newly signed master agent: The 61-minute Social Engagement Challenge (the61) starting April 26th 2013. We have decided to dub this Summer: The Distracted Driving Free Summer of 2013 with the goal of providing every driver in North America with the technology necessary to no longer need to drive distracted or text while driving. Our partners, (the61) will offer our service for 30-days free to the approximately 30-million students that are currently attending high schools, colleges and universities throughout the North America as part of their competitive social engagement challenge which will incentivize students to invest an additional 61-minutes into their communities volunteering for causes, programs or needs that are important to them. GetVext Hands-free Solutions, Inc. (GetVext) is a revolutionary new technology that enables a mobile subscriber access to individual and group text messages and select social networking sites without typing, by voice, at any time, on any wireless mobile device or from any land-line phone. Subscribers compose and reply to text messages and social network entries entirely by voice. Hands-free and eyes-free. Safely while driving, and at any other time. Contact: Larry Favalora GetVext Hands-free Solutions, Inc. 1006 West Taft, Suite 166, Sapulpa, Oklahoma 74066 Telephone:918.289.2146 E-mail:larry.favalora@getvext.com Websitewww.getvext.com